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The first year at UCLA, Cherese was very shy and kept to
herself. She had planned her classes according to her goals.
She was a geography major. She used much of the knowledge
gained by her dedication and perseverance in school. The Spanish
she learned from a textbook was applied at Hood Corporation,
our family business, it would also benefit her while traveling
abroad. She loved to listen to Spanish music and enjoyed foreign
films. Her major would also prepare her to understand the
company business more completely. Cherese was very interested
in social and political issues and often expressed a deep
concern for those who were less fortunate. She focused her
studies and efforts on how she could help, especially children.
During this time at school, Cherese learned about the "Semester
at Sea" program, which is sponsored by the University
of Pittsburgh. They take 600 students twice a year around
the world for 100 days on a cruise ship. It is full time school
and credit, when they are out to sea, and field studies when
in port. She planned to go the following spring, then return
to UCLA for her senior year and graduate in June 1997. She
wanted the opportunity to enrich her knowledge and gain a
better understanding of the cultures, peoples and environments
they would be visiting and she wanted the challenge of learning
more about herself, how she would be affected by the conditions
in which people in third world countries must live. Unfortunately,
we will never know all the feelings Cherese was experiencing
during the Semester at Sea trip.
September 17, 1995. It was Cherese's 21st birthday. We wanted
to take Cherese to Las Vegas, but it was too difficult for
Todd and Cherese to arrange the time, so we didn't go. Cherese
decided she just wanted to go bowling and have fun. Larry
and I took her to Java Lanes and we all had a great time.
Later that evening, we took Cherese out to dinner at one of
her favorite restaurants. Thinking back to the fun we had
that night,the laughter and smile on Cherese's face when she
ordered a glass of wine for the very first time, it is hard
to believe it was the last time we would ever celebrate her
birthday. She would never be older then 21.
Though Cherese dated in high school and jr. college, she did
not have anyone special in her life at this time, until she
met Brian. They were in the same Spanish class at UCLA and
soon became friends. Then Brian asked Cherese for a date,
his unexpected kiss changed everything. Brian would now have
a special place in her heart. Forever. He made her laugh.
He made her happy. And she did the same for him. Brian has
written a beautiful article about Cherese, printed in the
UCLA Daily Bruin. (Read Brian
Birkenstein's article)

One of the reasons Cherese liked UCLA was the diversity, which
was also a factor in deciding on Semester at Sea. In her life,
Cherese had a number of diverse friends, she did not judge
people by the color of their skin or their beliefs, but for
who they were. Cherese wrote an essay which was required by
Semester at Sea and was accepted in the program and started
receiving informational literature. We read everything together.
We asked every question possible about Cherese's safety. We
were assured that she would be safe. She began the long series
of shots to protect her from diseases. Night after night she
would read through the materials to select the trips for her
itinerary. On February 1st Cherese would fly to Nassau, Bahamas,
where the ship, SS Universe Explorer would depart and travel
to: La Guaira, Venezuela; Salvador, Brazil; Cape Town, South
Africa; Mombasa, Kenya; Madras, India; Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam;
Manila, Philippines; Hong Kong; Kobe, Japan and back to the
United States, to Seattle, Washington. Everyone was to return
to Washington on May 13th. But not Cherese.

January 21, 1996, Cherese moved out of her apartment and back
home. We had lived in this home for 24 years and in December
1995 we bought another home just 1 mile away. We moved just
16 days after Cherese left for Semester At Sea. I often think
if we had not moved, Cherese would still be coming home, alive.
We spent the next ten days together shopping for her trip.
She needed a backpack, camera, clothing and even netting to
cover her face from mosquitoes, as she was highly allergic
to them and was terrified she would get lots of bites. During
those last ten days, Cherese said her good-byes to friends,
co-workers and family. She went ice skating with Brian and
we celebrated Todd's 23rd birthday at Red Lobster. We had
fun that night, I remember Cherese dipping the little fried
shrimps in the ranch dressing, she loved ranch dressing and
dipped just about anything in it!
The next day we took out the home movies and Cherese and I
spent hours remembering those treasured moments caught on
tape. She smiled when she saw me holding Todd and my tummy
was quite large, I was pregnant with her. Shortly after, I
was holding Cherese in my arms, coming home from the hospital.
And before we knew it, she was graduating from high school.
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